When I was young, I would sometimes hear people describe me as “impressionable”—another way, I think, of saying I was gullible. I would get caught up in someone’s story and buy in enthusiastically.
I’ve been thinking about the concept of being impressionable lately. In the strictest sense, to be impressionable means to be easily influenced or affected by other people’s opinions, ideas, or emotions.
Being “impressionable” often carries a negative connotation, suggesting susceptibility to manipulation or a lack of independent thought. Today’s deterioration of civil discourse seems to reflect this idea. As a nation, we have never been more divided. Many seem to sign on to a particular viewpoint and don’t move off it no matter what other information may come their way. In other words, the “impression” gets stuck in neutral. My daughter refers to these types as “flat earthers” – the world is flat and that’s that.
However, I’d like to make the case for the positive aspects of being impressionable, especially when viewed through the lens of personal growth, adaptability, and learning.
The Hidden Benefits of Being Impressionable
At best, people who are impressionable are
• Open to New Ideas Impressionable individuals are more likely to consider new perspectives, embrace change, and adapt to evolving circumstances. This openness can foster creativity and innovation, as they are willing to learn from others and integrate diverse viewpoints.
• Drawn to Enhanced Learning and Growth People who are impressionable often absorb information quickly and are receptive to feedback. This makes them excellent learners, as they can readily incorporate new knowledge and skills into their lives.
• More Socially Aware and Empathetic A person who is impressionable may become more sensitive to the feelings and experiences of others. They are more likely to recognize and address the needs of those around them, which can enhance relationships and social interactions.
No matter your profession, age or stage of life, I believe a case can be made that we would all be well served by being more open, more empathetic, and more aware—and yes, more impressionable.
